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		<title>21 Meditation Exercises</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 20:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[meditation]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ 
Once again I invite you to explore a range of ways you might bring meditation into your life from Sounds True. Maybe you have tried meditating before and become restless or bored, or it brought up painful feelings or perhaps you have never tried meditation. In the links below you may find a meditation [...]]]></description>
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<p>Once again I invite you to explore a range of ways you might bring meditation into your life from <a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/#state_what_are_the_benefits" target="_blank">Sounds True</a>. Maybe you have tried meditating before and become restless or bored, or it brought up painful feelings or perhaps you have never tried meditation. In the links below you may find a meditation practice (or more than one) that is just right for you.</p>
<p>Research has scientifically proven that meditation is a safe and simple way to balance your physical, emotional, and mental state and its countless values have been known and practiced for thousands of years. More and more doctors promote the benefits of meditation to cure many stress related illnesses.Meditation has been proven to:</p>
<ul>
<li>relieve stress</li>
<li>lower blood pressure and heart rate</li>
<li>improves the immune system</li>
<li>improve mood (such as feeling blue or anxious)</li>
<li>create new neural pathways in your brain leading to better states of mind and wellbeing</li>
<li>increase the level of healthy neurotransmitters (e.g. serotonin)</li>
<li>reconnect with yourself </li>
<li>recognise and release&#160; habitual thinking patterns </li>
</ul>
<p><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px" border="0" alt="21 Meditation Exercises You Can Try Right Now" align="right" src="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/images/pic1_filled.gif" width="168" height="181" /></p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p><em>The ultimate expression of meditation comes when we can feel all the pains of the world, experience them with mindfulness and equanimity so they dissolve into energy, and then recolor that energy and radiate it out as unconditional love, moment by moment, through every pore of our being.     <br />—Shinzen Young</em></p>
<h3>&#160;</h3>
<p>Are you ready to experience meditation for yourself? Simply select the category on the right that interests you, and you’ll be on your way. “Meditation to Calm the Mind” and “Open to Awareness” offers you eight traditional techniques to settle your thoughts, strengthen your attention, and build a foundation for successful practice.    <br />“Meditation to Soften and Nourish the Heart” includes a series of practices that focus on nurturing qualities like compassion and kindness. “Meditation on the Energy of the Body” shows us how to open up the free flow of life force throughout our being.     <br />“Meditation as ’Just Being’” is less about technique and more about simply welcoming all experience. And perhaps the most practical, “Meditation in Daily Life” helps you bring the fruits of meditation into your everyday activities—while eating, driving, at the office, and so on.</p>
<h3><strong>Meditation Exercises Overview:</strong></h3>
<p><strong>This interactive guide </strong>is designed for people who have heard about meditation but don&#8217;t know where to begin. To make it easy for you to learn how to meditate, Sounds True have created five categories, each of which includes exercises you can try right now</p>
<p><strong><font color="#0000ff">Meditation to Calm the Mind and Open to Awareness</font></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=1">1: Observing the Breath</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=2">2: Meditation for Relaxation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=3">3: Mantra Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=4">4: Centring Prayer</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=5">5: Meditation on Harmony</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=6">6: Sufi Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=7">7: Walking Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=8">8: Meditation for Pain Relief</a></li>
</ul>
<p> <strong><font color="#ff0080">Meditation to Soften and Nourish the Heart</font></strong>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=9">9: Metta— Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=10">10: Tonglen— Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=11">11: Forgiveness Meditation</a></li>
</ul>
<p> <strong><font color="#800000">Meditation on the Energy of the Body</font></strong>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=12">12: Chakra Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=13">13: Standing Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=14">14: Inner-Body Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=15">15: Earth Breathing</a></li>
</ul>
<p> <strong><font color="#8000ff">Meditation as &quot;Just Being&quot;</font></strong>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=16">16: Natural Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=17">17: True Meditation</a></li>
</ul>
<p> <strong><font color="#ff8000">Meditation in Daily Life</font></strong>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=18">18: Meditation for Busy People</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=19">19: Morning Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=20">20: Mini Meditations</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/meditation/pages/abstract.php?id=21">21: Eating Meditation</a></li>
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		<title>Sacred Awakening Series</title>
		<link>http://transformative.com.au/blog/2010/03/sacred-awakening-series/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 09:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Spiritual Practice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reflection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sacred]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ Join 40 of the world&#8217;s most respected spiritual leaders to dialogue about the question ~ 
How can we live a truly sacred life? 
Each teacher will be asked to share their most important secrets for living a sacred life – the practical, personal tips for how they have found joy, love, connection, and a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p align="center"><strong><a href="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/057.jpg"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 0px 25px 0px 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="057" border="0" alt="057" align="left" src="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/057_thumb.jpg" width="184" height="244" /></a> <font color="#800000" size="5" face="Papyrus">Join 40 of the world&#8217;s most respected spiritual leaders to dialogue about the question ~ </font></strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong><font color="#800000" size="5" face="Papyrus">How can we live a truly sacred life?</font></strong> </p>
<p>Each teacher will be asked to share their most important secrets for living a sacred life – the practical, personal tips for how they have found joy, love, connection, and a sense of purpose, as well as learned how to express their highest service in the world. </p>
<p>The <a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/recordings?email=leona@bigpond.net.au"><b>Recordings Archive</b></a> now features their first 28 leaders, and <a href="http://http://sacredawakeningseries.com/" target="_blank">Sacred Awakening</a> posts new releases within a few days, plus transcripts as volunteers complete them. You can register to join the final 12 call lives <a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/" target="_blank">here</a>. You’ll be able to engage with some of the wisest, most enlightened, and loving spiritual teachers, all from the convenience of home. For those unable to take a long desert retreat, I hope this series will prove illuminating for your path!</p>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-10">Andrew Harvey</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-14">Angeles Arrien</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-15">Bishop John Shelby Spong</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-52">Chunyi Lin</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-25">Dattatreya Siva Baba</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-38">Dr. A. T. Ariyaratne</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-3">Gangaji</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-42">Genpo Roshi</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-41">Grandmother Agnes Baker Pilgrim</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-40">Grandmother Flordemayo</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-8">Isha Judd</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-6">Julia Butterfly Hill</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-39">Jyoti</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-11">Leslie Temple-Thurston</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-31">Luisah Teish</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-2">Marianne Williamson</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-50">Matthew Fox</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-29">Rabbi Lynn Gottlieb</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-28">Rabbi Yehuda Berg</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-51">Reverend James Trapp</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-7">Reverend Michael Dowd</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-30">Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-26">Saniel Bonder &amp; Linda Groves Bonder</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-5">Sequoyah Trueblood</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-158221">Sheikha Ayshegul Ashki</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=1#node-27">Shiva Rea</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=2#node-43">Sobonfu Somé</a></li>
<li><a href="http://sacredawakeningseries.com/?page=0#node-9">Stanislav Grof</a></li>
<p>&#160;</p>
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		<title>18 Wonderful Self-Healing Exercises free from Sounds True</title>
		<link>http://transformative.com.au/blog/2010/02/18-wonderful-self-healing-exercises-free-from-sounds-true/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 10:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Spiritual Practice]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[18 Self-Healing Exercises 

We all have the capacity to generate healing in our own lives and to help others to do the same. Are you ready to experience the benefits of energy healing? We invite you to select whichever category on the right is most interesting to you, and jump right in to explore this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/exercises_list.php">18 Self-Healing Exercises </a></p>
<p><img style="margin: 0px 20px 0px 0px; display: inline" border="0" alt="18 Self-Healing Exercises You Can Try Right Now" align="left" src="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/images/pic1_filled.gif" width="168" height="181" /></p>
<h4>We all have the capacity to generate healing in our own lives and to help others to do the same. Are you ready to experience the benefits of energy healing? We invite you to select whichever category on the right is most interesting to you, and jump right in to explore this fascinating field.</h4>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>The first section, <em><strong>Working with the Life Force</strong></em>, begins with two foundational relaxation exercises where you will be introduced to the flow of energy in your body and how to work with it to stimulate healing and combat stress and fatigue.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Breath, Prana, and Qi</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=103">&#160; 1. The Relaxing Breath&#8211; Andrew Weil</a><a href="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/j0182738.jpg"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 15px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="j0182738" border="0" alt="j0182738" align="right" src="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/j0182738_thumb.jpg" width="244" height="165" /></a> </li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=105">&#160; 2. Yoga Relaxation&#8211; Shiva Rea</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p>The next section on <em><strong>Energy Medicine Exercises</strong></em> awakens your subtle energy body through powerful practices involving the chakras, including a daily energy routine you can do each day to infuse your life with clarity and vitality.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Chakras, Meridians, and Aura</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=201">&#160; 3. A Tour of the Chakras&#8211; Anodea Judith</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=202">&#160; 4. Chakra Healing&#8211; Cyndi Dale</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=203">&#160; 5. A Morning Chakra Exercise&#8211; Caroline Myss</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=204">&#160; 6. Purification and Balancing&#8211; Layne Redmond</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=205">&#160; 7. Five Minute Daily Energy Routine&#8211; Donna Eden</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=208">&#160; 8. Matrix Energetics&#8211; Richard Bartlett</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p><a href="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Waterfall1.jpg"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="A cascading waterfall, flanked by flowers." border="0" alt="A cascading waterfall, flanked by flowers." align="right" src="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Waterfall1_thumb.jpg" width="244" height="184" /></a> Our <em><strong>Sound Healing</strong></em> section introduces three practices which give you a first-hand experience of the unique power of sound to connect you with deep levels of healing and transformation.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Sound Healing</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=302">&#160; 9. Chanting the Chakras&#8211; Layne Redmond</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=308">10. Self-Healing with Sound and Music&#8211; Andrew Weil and Kimba Arem</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=312">11. Vocal Toning the Chakras&#8211; Jonathan Goldman</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p>The next section on <em><strong>Using the Hands for Healing</strong></em> provides an effective exercise for tuning into the innate healing powers which exist right in your very own hands. By learning how to activate our hands for healing, we prepare ourselves to bring forth powerful energies of transformation.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Using the Hands for Healing</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=401">12. Your Healing Hands&#8211; Jack Angelo</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p><em><strong>Guided Imagery and Visualization</strong></em> includes five simple, yet transformative exercises, each of which opens a doorway into a more awake and alive experience of life.&#160; <a href="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Forest1.jpg"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 15px 0px 0px 20px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="A forest path in Redwoods State Park, California." border="0" alt="A forest path in Redwoods State Park, California." align="right" src="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Forest1_thumb.jpg" width="244" height="184" /></a> </p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Guided Imagery and Visualization</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=501">13. Imagery for Self-Healing&#8211; Martin Rossman</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=503">14. Healing Lake Meditation&#8211; Jon Kabat-Zinn</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=506">15. Combating Energy Vampires&#8211; Judith Orloff</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=511">16. Meditation for Pain Relief&#8211; Shinzen Young</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=517">17. Color and healing&#8211; Laura Alden Kamm</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p>We conclude with <em><strong>Soul-Level Healing</strong></em> where you will learn to enter the &quot;non-ordinary reality&quot; of the shaman. As a part of this journey, you will discover useful information and ways of healing that are not ordinarily available in the normal waking state.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Soul-Level Healing</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.soundstrue.com/guide/energyhealing/pages/abstract.php?id=601">18. Intro to Shamanic Journeying&#8211; Sandra Ingerman</a></li>
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<p>In Focusing we might turn towards ourselves, as a first step, and say hello to what is there holding the space with a quality of empathic curiosity.</p>
<p>In NVC we might sense for the unmet needs which are our values that are not being met in this situation.</p>
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<p>I also relish that he has drawn my attention to how much of my present moment emotional experience is part of an ongoing stream from my past.</p>
<p>Mindful observation of the present experience can help me “not add more to my story” <u>and </u>saying hello and empathically connecting with the nature of my energy stream from the past can help me heal and move forward from a needs met energy. </p>
<p>Please enjoy and then go check out his blog. It’s worth subscribing to.</p>
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<p><a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheUrbanMonk/~3/doGl-m57yC0/"><b>The Inner Child – An Introduction to Dialoguing</b></a></p>
<p>Posted: 12 May 2009 11:30 PM PDT</p>
<p><em>“So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us.”</em>            <br />~Gaston Bachelard</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that, despite our best efforts, we sometimes behave like children? </p>
<p>There is a child inside all of us, whether we realize it or not. And sometimes we return to that child like state. Often, this is a good thing – letting us tap into our playfulness, innocence, and amazement at the world. But at other times, it is the child’s vulnerabilities, dependencies, and insecurities are reactivated.</p>
<p>A neglected and denied child – reflecting unresolved wounds, old beliefs, and values – can destroy our lives in ways we do not realise. We might interact with the opposite sex with the awkwardness of a ten year old, or speak to our boss with the fear of a lost little boy. As Nathaniel Branden said in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553266462?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=persdeveteaco-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0553266462"><b>How to Raise Your Self-Esteem</b></a><img height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=persdeveteaco-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0553266462" width="1" border="0" />, many of us try to become an adult by pushing away and ignoring this child – but the real path to adulthood is recognising this child, making friends with it. </p>
<p>This post introduces a simple, versatile and yet very powerful process. It simply involves conversing with your disowned parts. While introduced with the inner child, this process is extremely effective in other forms of personal growth, such as shadow and sub-personality work. (Of which the rest of the series will go into detail.)</p>
<p><img title="Little Angels" height="207" alt="Little Angels" src="http://www.urbanmonk.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/big_little_angels.jpg" width="480" border="0" /></p>
<h4>Who Has Been Hurt?</h4>
<p>A long time ago, I bumped into a woman who was sitting behind me in a restaurant. It was an accident, but her husband began telling me off. I apologized a few times, but he ignored me and kept shouting. Eventually, I told him to stop making a scene, and walked off. At the end of the night, as he walked past me on his way out of the restaurant, he gave me a fierce glare. </p>
<p>And this was the surprising part, for I suddenly felt an overwhelming sense of abandonment, hurt, and fear. It made no sense to me. All the rage he had displayed before had not disturbed me, and I had no reason to be afraid, for he was half my size and twice my age. And yet – why this irrational sorrow, and why did it last for weeks after the event? </p>
<p>One day I found out why. I was reliving the event in my mind’s eye during a session of <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/85/the-elusive-key-to-emotional-mastery-is-it-really-that-simple/"><b>emotional work</b></a>, when on a whim I removed the “camera” from out of my eyes and turned it around on myself. I was shocked at what I saw. It wasn’t the adult me who was sitting in the chair being glared at, it was a little boy of about six years old. I recognised that face; it was me.</p>
<h4>The Child Has Always Been There</h4>
<p>Almost everyone who has been in the world of personal development will have heard of the inner child. For a long time, I refused to do any work with it. Like many men, I cringed at the thought I had a soft and vulnerable side, and that attitude had kept me in suffering. But inside the mental scene, I was stunned. It was the first time I had been brought face to face with something I had denied my entire life, and I didn’t know what to do, for the boy was scared to tears.</p>
<p>I immediately injected my adult self into the scene, and rushed over to pick him up. I put everything else on “pause”, just like a video recording. I sat him on my knee, and held him tight as he began to cry. He was hurt, he told me. He hadn’t done anything wrong on purpose. It was just an accident and he had already apologized so many times. Why did that man still hate him? What else could he have done? Had the man been sitting there glaring at him for the entire night without him knowing?</p>
<p>As I held him, I realised that these thoughts, fears, and questions had been in my mind ever since the event. But I had resisted them every step of the way. I wanted to be strong, and my entire adult life, I did that by burying my sadness so deeply that I had to spend weeks <em>relearning how to cry.</em> I pushed the fearful child away by spending years in boxing and martial arts. And all that did was send an entire part of me, as Branden puts it, into an alienated oblivion. </p>
<p>This was the biggest reason one glare had hurt me for so long. I could not admit these feelings. This is worth reading, for many readers will find this difficult to accept. It wasn’t that man who had caused the hurt. He had merely triggered years and years of similar pains, of identical fears.</p>
<p><strong>Further Reading:</strong> <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/652/unconditional-acceptance-for-our-totality-part-2/"><b>Unconditional Acceptance for Our Totality</b></a></p>
<h4>The Inner Child</h4>
<p>As a child, each of us has been neglected, hurt, abandoned, or spat on in one way or another. This is true even for those with relatively happy childhoods. Sometimes it is what others had done to us; sometimes it is our own self-reproach for things we had done or not done, feelings we have had or not had. We might have hated ourselves for being needy, for being hurt, for being angry, for believing in things our parents didn’t. </p>
<p>In other words, we carry unresolved suffering inside us, and out of fear, pain, or embarrassment, we deny it. This is often undeniable for those who have had painful childhoods – the suffering there would be something we would do anything not to revisit. And so we lock the child – <em>us</em> – into a dark dungeon and drown out their cries with cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, sex, and work. </p>
<p>As psychiatrist R.D. Laing said – <em>We choose to forget who we are, and forget that we have forgotten.</em></p>
<p>And yet, no matter how much we deny it, the child will not – cannot – go away. It needs to be integrated,<br />
accepted, and given lots of conscious attention and compassion, even if what they have to say is painful for us to hear. Only then, can we express all of his or her emotions in a healthy, mature manner. Only then, can we allow the child to be reintegrated.</p>
<h4>Meeting The Child</h4>
<p>So what exactly do we do? Meeting the child is a process that is alive, creative, and flowing. It would be an injustice to reduce it to a series of steps. It would also be unwise, because this process is unique to each person. </p>
<p>It is for these reasons that I have gone into so much detail in my own description, for you to get a feel of the ideas, and to do your own thing. The most important thing is to let everything come to you naturally, without forcing anything. My experience was based on how my mind works, so please don’t get locked in. Your experience can be completely different, and doesn’t even have to be visual. The child can be of any age, as long as it feels right to you. It is important not to have any expectations, or we might simply interact with what we <em>think</em> is inside us, leading to further denial. Allow yourself to be surprised.</p>
<p>Besides working with a specific event, another approach is visiting the child as he or she is right now. Allow yourself to get a clear image of what she looks like in your mind. A photograph will be helpful if you have one. </p>
<p>What is she doing?           <br />Where is she?            <br />What is he feeling?            <br />What does he want to say?            <br />What does he want?            <br />What does she want to show you?            <br />What does she need from you? </p>
<p>William DeFoore, in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0757301118?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=persdeveteaco-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0757301118"><b>Anger</b></a><img height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=persdeveteaco-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0757301118" width="1" border="0" />, warns that sometimes the inner child might be too hurt or frightened to build a proper connection. Sometimes this concept is still too awkward. Please don’t give up too early; it is one of the most powerful things I use.</p>
<h4>Interacting With The Child</h4>
<p>Interact with the child. Treat him with as much compassion as you can. How would you want to be talked to, if you were in her position? It is important to let them have their say, and let them have their full experience. Some of us might impose our adult views on the child – telling it to toughen up and stop being such a crybaby, for instance. But isn’t that how we have hurt him in the first place? Don’t try to talk her out of her feelings. We can apologise to her for having ignored her for all these years, and promise to love her and hold her the next time she is hurt.</p>
<p>Nathaniel Branden provides several questions we can ask ourselves at this point. The most helpful would be – What can I do to be kinder to the child? What does she do when she feels ignored by me? What does he do when he feels I am treating him harshly? How have I been treating the child up to this day? What did you need to do to survive?</p>
<h4>Step into Their World</h4>
<p>The final step, then, is to become the child. Step into her world, and see things from her perspective. Feel as he feels. Speak as she speaks. Position your body as he would be. Perhaps he is curled up on the floor; perhaps she is sitting in the corner, or hiding under the blanket. </p>
<p>Become all the things that you have noticed about the child throughout the previous conversations. If she is scared, then be scared yourself. If he just wants to skip work today and curl in bed, then feel it. This doesn’t mean you have to act on it, of course, but in this process, <strong>mentally</strong> reclaim these traits, tendencies, and feelings as your own. This is perhaps the most vital step. It is to be expected that this feels awkward, as we finally aligning ourselves with what we have pushed aside for so long. </p>
<p>The insights that come from this can be truly striking. I won’t provide examples here, though, as there is always a tendency to start searching for insights similar to what we’ve read. It is always a good idea to return to the adult self and interact with and love the child again, based on what you’ve discovered.</p>
<p><em>Remember with any process that safety and respect for yourself and those around you is always the top priority.</em></p>
<h4>Cleaning Up After The Dialogue</h4>
<p>At the end of the experience, take some time to work with whatever has arisen. There are two general approaches to this – the emotions and the feelings. </p>
<p>There are two ways of working with emotions: <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/85/the-elusive-key-to-emotional-mastery-is-it-really-that-simple/"><b>Feeling them completely</b></a>, or <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/332/the-key-to-behavioural-mastery-letting-go/"><b>releasing them</b></a>. Throughout the entire process, either one of these should be happening by itself, since dialoguing is meant for us to get in touch with our feelings. However, I can’t be sure, as I’ve been releasing for so long that it happens automatically no matter what I do. Therefore, it is a good idea to try and do this consciously. Try to release or welcome your emotions throughout the entire dialogue, and also to take little breaks in between, and afterwards, to work with them. </p>
<p>Another powerful approach would be using <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/welcome/#thework"><b>The Work of Byron Katie</b></a> with any beliefs or statements your child self presents to you. I would recommend it only for the more experienced, though. For example, my child cried and told me that it is hopeless, and that he would be hated no matter what he did. It was very healing to gently take him through the four questions and find that his perceptions had been distorted and he had believed a lie. </p>
<h4>What’s Next</h4>
<p>I plan to present some other ways of using dialogue to reach those previously inaccessible places in our psyche. The rest of the series will tend towards examples and variations of this core process. (I hesitate to promise things now because I’ve broken many promises I’ve made in these <strong>What’s Next</strong> sections, heh heh! Sorry.)</p>
<h4>Link Love</h4>
<p>One of my favourite blogs, with no exaggeration, is <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com"><b>Purpose Power Coaching</b></a> by Chris Edgar. His materials are very deep and yet practical. A recent post you might like: <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=317"><b>Reframing “Why Am I Doing This?”</b></a></p>
<p>A blog I’ve recently discovered is <a href="http://www.raptitude.com"><b>Raptitude</b></a> by David Cain, with a tagline: The gentle art of sanity amidst civilization. A recent post you might like: <a href="http://www.raptitude.com/2009/05/powerful-lessons-my-mom-did-not-teach-me/"><b>Powerful Lessons My Mom Did Not Teach Me</b></a>.</p>
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<p>When do you listen to yourself with this quality of attention? Are you wondering how you can? </p>
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<p>Jack Kornfield in <a href="http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php" target="_blank">Shambhala Sun</a> writes about Mindfulness. I have excerpted part of this article below but you might enjoy reading the whole <a href="http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=view&amp;id=3101&amp;Itemid=244&amp;limit=1&amp;limitstart=0" target="_blank">article</a>.    </p>
<p>Mindfulness/awareness was the meditation the Buddha practiced and taught—it was his basic prescription for human suffering. Looking at life with an open and nonjudgmental attention, we see our confusion and develop insight. This is the basis of all Buddhist practice and the key to liberation.</p>
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<h4>Four Principles for Mindful Transformation</h4>
<blockquote><p>Learning takes place only in a mind that is innocent and vulnerable.      <br />—Krishnamurti</p>
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<p>There are four principles for mindful transformation of difficulties that are taught in Western mindfulness retreats with the acronym RAIN. RAIN stands for Recognition, Acceptance, Investigation, and Non-Indentification. This acronym echoes the Zen poets who tell us “the rain falls equally on all things.” Like the nourishment of outer rain, the inner principles of RAIN can transform our difficulties.</p>
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<h4>Recognition</h4>
<p>Recognition is the first step of mindfulness. When we are stuck in our life, we must begin with a willingness to see what is so. It is as if someone asks us gently, what is happening now? Do we reply brusquely, “Nothing”? Or do we pause and acknowledge the reality of our experience, here and now? </p>
<p>With recognition we step out of denial. Denial undermines our freedom. The diabetic who denies his body is not free. Neither is the driven, stressed-out executive who denies the cost of her lifestyle, or the self-critical would-be painter who denies his love of making art. The society that denies its poverty and injustice has lost a part of its freedom as well. If we deny our dissatisfaction, our anger, our pain, our ambition, we will suffer. If we deny our values, our beliefs, our longings, or our goodness, we will suffer.     <br />“The emergence and blossoming of understanding, love, and intelligence has nothing to do with any outer tradition,” observes Zen teacher Toni Packer. “It happens completely on its own when a human being questions, wonders, listens, and looks without getting stuck in fear. When self-concern is quiet, in abeyance, heaven and earth are open.”</p>
<p>With recognition our awareness becomes like the dignified host. We name and inwardly bow to our experience: “Ah, sorrow; and now excitement; hmm, yes, conflict; and yes, tension. Oh, now pain, yes, and now, ah, the judging mind.” Recognition moves us from delusion and ignorance toward freedom. “We can light a lamp in the darkness,” says the Buddha. We can see what is so.</p>
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<h4>Acceptance</h4>
<p>The next step of RAIN is acceptance. Acceptance allows us to relax and open to the facts before us. It is necessary because with recognition, there can come a subtle aversion, a resistance, a wish it weren’t so. Acceptance does not mean that we cannot work to improve things. But just now, this is what is so. In Zen they say, “If you understand, things are just as they are. And if you don’t understand, things are still just as they are.”     <br />Acceptance is not passivity. It is a courageous step in the process of transformation. “Trouble? Life is trouble. Only death is nice,” Zorba the Greek declares. “To live is to roll up your sleeves and embrace trouble.” Acceptance is a willing movement of the heart, to include whatever is before it. In individual transformation we have to start with the reality of our own suffering. For social transformation we have to start with the reality of collective suffering, of injustice, racism, greed, and hate. We can only transform the world as we learn to transform ourselves. As Carl Jung comments, “Perhaps I myself am the enemy who must be loved.”</p>
<p>With acceptance and respect, problems that seem intractable often become workable. A man began to give large doses of cod-liver oil to his Doberman because he had been told that the stuff was good for dogs. Each day he would hold the head of the protesting dog between his knees, force its jaws open, and pour the liquid down its throat. One day the dog broke loose and the fish oil spilled on the floor. Then, to the man’s great surprise, the dog returned to lick the puddle. That is when the man discovered that what the dog had been fighting was not the oil but his lack of respect in administering it. With acceptance and respect, surprising transformations can occur.    </p>
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<h4>Investigation</h4>
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<p>Recognition and acceptance lead to the third step of RAIN, investigation. Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh calls this “seeing deeply.” In recognition and acceptance we recognize our dilemma and accept the truth of the whole situation. Now we must investigate more fully. Buddhism teaches that whenever we are stuck, it is because we have not looked deeply enough into the nature of the experience.</p>
<p>Buddhism systematically directs our investigation to four areas that are critical for understanding and freedom. These are called the four foundations of mindfulness: body, feelings, mind, and dharma, the underlying principles of experience. </p>
<p>Here is how we can apply them when working with a difficult experience. Starting with investigation in the body, we mindfully locate where our difficulties are held. Sometimes we find heat, contraction, hardness, or vibration. Sometimes we notice throbbing, numbness, a certain shape or color. We can investigate whether we are meeting this area with resistance or with mindfulness. We notice what happens as we hold these sensations with mindfulness. Do they open? Are there other layers? Is there a centre? Do they intensify, move, expand, change, repeat, dissolve, or transform?</p>
<p>In the second foundation of mindfulness, we can investigate what feelings are part of this difficulty. Is the primary feeling tone pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral? Are we meeting this feeling with mindfulness? And what are the secondary feelings associated with it? Often we discover a constellation of feelings. A man remembering his divorce may feel sadness, anger, jealously, loss, fear, and loneliness. </p>
<p>A woman who was unable to help her addicted nephew can feel longing, aversion, guilt, desire, emptiness, and unworthiness. With mindfulness, each feeling is recognized and accepted. We investigate how each emotion feels, whether it is pleasant or painful, contracted or relaxed, tense or sad. We notice where we feel the emotion in our body and what happens to it as it is held in mindfulness.</p>
<p>Next comes the mind. What thoughts and images are associated with this difficulty? What stories, judgments, and beliefs are we holding? When we look more closely, we often discover that some of them are one-sided, fixed points of view, or out-moded, habitual perspectives. We see that they are only stories. They loosen their hold on us. We cling less to them.</p>
<p>The fourth foundation to investigate is called mindfulness of t<br />
he dharma. Dharma is an important and multifaceted word that can mean the teachings and the path of Buddhism. It can mean the truth, and in this case it can also mean the elements and patterns that make up experience. In mindfulness of the dharma we look into the principles and laws that are operating. We can notice if an experience is actually as solid as it appears. Is it unchanging or is it impermanent, moving, shifting, recreating itself? We notice if the difficulty expands or contracts the space in our mind, if it is in our control or if it has its own life. We notice if it is self-constructed. We investigate whether we are clinging to it, resisting it, or simply letting it be. We see whether our relationship to it is a source of suffering or happiness. And finally, we notice how much we identify with it. </p>
<p>This leads us to the last step of RAIN, non-identification.</p>
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<h4>Nonidentification</h4>
<p>In not-identification we stop taking the experience as me or mine. We see how our identification creates dependence, anxiety, and inauthenticity. In practicing non-identification, we inquire of every state, experience, and story, is this who we really are? We see the tentativeness of this identity. Instead of identification with this difficulty, we let go and rest in awareness itself. This is the culmination of releasing difficulty through RAIN.     <br />One Buddhist practitioner, David, identified himself as a failure. His life had many disappointments and after a few years of Buddhist practice, he was disappointed by his meditation too. He became calmer but that was all. He was still plagued by unrelenting critical thoughts and self-judgments, leftovers from a harsh and painful past. He identified with these thoughts and his wounded history. Even the practice of compassion for himself brought little relief.</p>
<p>Then, during a ten-day mindfulness retreat, he was inspired by the teachings on non-identification. He was touched by the stories of those who faced their demons and freed themselves. He remembered the account of the Buddha, who on the night of his enlightenment faced his own demons in the form of the armies and temptations of Mara. David decided to stay up all night and directly face his own demons. For many hours, he tried to be mindful of his breath and body. In between sittings, he took periods of walking meditation. At each sitting, he was washed over by familiar waves of sleepiness, body pains, and critical thoughts. Then he began to notice that each changing experience was met by one common element, awareness itself.</p>
<p>In the middle of the night, he had an “ah ha” moment. He realized that awareness was not affected by any of these experiences, that it was open and untouched, like space itself. All his struggles, the painful feelings and thoughts, came and went without the slightest disturbance to awareness itself. Awareness became his refuge.</p>
<p>David decided to test his realization. The meditation hall was empty so he rolled on the floor. Awareness just noticed. He stood up, shouted, laughed, made funny animals noises. Awareness just noticed. He ran around the room, he lay down quietly, he went outside to the edge of the forest, he picked up a stone and threw it, jumped up and down, laughed, came back and sat. Awareness just noticed it all. Finding this, he felt free. He watched the sun rise softly over the hills. Then he went back to sleep for a time. And when he reawakened, his day was full of joy. Even when his doubts came back, awareness just noticed. Like the rain, his awareness allowed all things equally.</p>
<p>It would be too rosy to end this story here. Later in the retreat David again fell into periods of doubt, self-judgment, and depression. But now, even in the middle of it, he could recognize that it was just doubt, just judgment, just depression. He could not take it fully as his identity anymore. Awareness noticed this too. And was silent, free. </p>
<p>Buddhism calls non-identification the abode of the awakening, the end of clinging, true peace, nirvana. Without identification, we can live with care, yet we are no longer bound by the fears and illusions of the small sense of self. We see the secret beauty behind all that we meet. Mindfulness and fearless presence bring true protection. When we meet the world with recognition, acceptance, investigation and non-identification, we discover that wherever we are, freedom is possible, just as the rain falls on and nurtures all things equally.</p>
<p><strong>Jack Kornfield</strong> is a founding teacher of the Insight Meditation Society and Spirit Rock Center and one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. He is a former Buddhist monk, a clinical psychologist, and a husband and father. </p>
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		<title>Explore the global spirit on link-tv</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 10:06:54 +0000</pubDate>
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Link TV &#8211; Explore the Global Spirit&#8230; 
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<p>This is an amazing and very cool series &#8211; looking forward to seeing each of these episodes.</p>
<blockquote><h5><a href="http://www.linktv.org/globalspirit">Explore the Global Spirit&#8230;</a></h5>
<p><strong>Global Spirit</strong> is set to premiere Sunday, April 12, 2009, with weekly episodes on topics such as <em>The Spiritual Quest, The Journey Towards Oneness</em>, <em>Art and the Creative Spirit</em>, <em>Earth Wisdom</em> and more. Each program features in-depth discussions with knowledgeable guests from around the world, together with compelling film segments or live performances.<strong>       <br /></strong></p>
<p><strong>Global Spirit</strong> will offer insights into some of mankind’s deepest existential questions, tracing our collective human journey in the timeless quest for truth, wisdom and understanding. Each <strong>Global Spirit</strong> program will highlight the trans-cultural, transcendent dimensions of human inquiry, from the ancient or indigenous wisdom traditions to the latest advances in scientiﬁc knowledge. <strong>Global Spirit</strong> will do for the ﬁrst time on national television what the Mars Rover did for space: beam back a celestial wonder, a glimmer of what is possible in the realm of human consciousness, spirit and the mind.</p>
<h5><strong><strong>Most new episodes will also premiere online weekly.</strong></strong></h5>
<p>Explore the joys of “internal travel”. Don&#8217;t miss <strong>Global Spirit</strong>. Upcoming episodes include:</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global_spirit_spiritual_quest">The Spiritual Quest</a> &#8211; April 12, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/gs_ecstasy">In Search of Ecstasy</a> &#8211; April 19, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global_spirit_earth_wisdom">Earth Wisdom for a World in Crisis</a> &#8211; April 26, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/gs_forgiveness">Forgiveness and Healing</a> &#8211; May 3, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global-spirit-breaking-bows-and-arrows">Breaking Bows and Arrows</a> &#8211; May 10, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/gs_music">Music, Sound and the Sacred</a> &#8211; May 17, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global-spirit-from-the-heart-of-the-world-the-elder-brothers-warning">From the Heart of the World: The Elder Brother&#8217;s Warning</a> &#8211; May 24, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global-spirit-art-and-the-creative-spirit">Art and the Creative Spirit</a> &#8211; May 31, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global-spirit-rumi-poet-of-the-heart">Rumi, Poet of the Heart</a> &#8211; June 7, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT </li>
<li><a href="http://www.linktv.org/programs/global_spirit_journey_towards_oneness">The Journey Towards Oneness </a>- June 14, 2009, 9PM ET/6PM PT</li>
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<p>Support for <strong>Global Spirit</strong> has been generously provided by the Kalliopeia Foundation, the ONE Foundation, Fetzer Institute, the Compton Foundation, and the Shei’rah Foundation.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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I know that I have swung from trying to “repress” or “avoid” particular negative emotions or actions I have labelled as harmful to myself and others, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/j0437247.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-957" title="j0437247" src="http://transformative.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/j0437247-300x223.jpg" alt="j0437247" width="244" height="183" /></a>These are qualities of practice that I alluded to in my last blog. Most spiritual or personal development practices imply “improvement” or at least some kind of movement towards something.</p>
<p>I know that I have swung from trying to “repress” or “avoid” particular negative emotions or actions I have labelled as harmful to myself and others, or problematic at the very least, to indulging in the emotions or actions.</p>
<p>When I repress I tell myself a particular kind of story – how “bad” or “weak” I am, how lost I am or how I just can’t get my act together. I wallow in a critic-fest.</p>
<p>When I indulge I tell myself a different kind of story. I make enemy images of the people I am affecting – how they deserve it, how they brought it upon themselves, how I am acting righteously or justly to bring them to some new awareness. I criticise them.</p>
<p>Both ways are just stories I make up to justify my responses.</p>
<p>Now, however,  I am trying a middle way, one that has 3 processes.</p>
<h4>Acknowledging</h4>
<p>Now, I try and notice when I am moving towards repression or indulgence. I say hello to this movement, holding myself with a kind of friendliness that one feels with an old, dear friend.</p>
<blockquote><p>“Oh, hello my dear friend anger. I can sense you arising in my body – I can feel the tension and tightening across the front of my chest and the shortening of my breath. I acknowledge you there just as you are.”</p></blockquote>
<h4>Accompanying</h4>
<p>When I say hello to whatever is arising – what comes is a relationship between me and it. For example a relationship between me and anger. I am not anger and it is not me but we are here, in this moment, together. I can sense how it moves through me. I can accompany its arising, its response to my acknowledgement and I, now, can accompany it as it tells me what is up for it. I can listen to it and listen for its deeper needs or the values it thinks it will protect by doing what it is doing. I can accompany it a little way down the road.</p>
<h4>Accepting</h4>
<p>I can accept that this is how I feel just now and as I journey with it I can notice moment by moment shifts and changes. Accepting doesn’t mean agreeing – it just means –yep, this is how it seems for me just now in this moment. I can accept that I might be experiencing suffering or discomfort. I can accept that it feels strong or overwhelming.</p>
<p>It may seem like accepting will be buying into the story (whichever one is being told) – yet that has not been my experience. I have found that once I accept whatever I am experiencing – no matter how subjective – a new possibility opens up for me. There comes a softening, a letting go, a relaxing of sorts.</p>
<p>And there, in that space I can invite something more.  I might invite some questions:</p>
<blockquote><p>“Is this true, really true? Can I be absolutely sure that what I am telling myself  is true?&#8221;</p>
<p>“What needs or values are needing care in all of this?”</p>
<p>“Is there any other part of me that needs attention too? Is there something more that also needs to tell its story?”</p>
<p>“Is there something happening here that brings up old, unresolved material from my childhood? How can I best take care of myself if this is happening?”</p>
<p>“Can I get a felt sense of this – an image, a metaphor, a word that best captures all of it? Can I stay with this and explore my inner landscape and what it knows, in my body, about the best way forward?”</p></blockquote>
<p>This process of acknowledging, accompanying and accepting is so helping me to connect more compassionately with myself. I am better able to stay with my present moment experiences and find such richness in them.  I sense they are the first step on a journey to a delightful self-acceptance.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Swiss psychologist Alice Miller wrote:
“Ultimately the body will rebel. Even if it can be temporarily pacified with the help of drugs, cigarettes or medicine, it usually has the last word because it is quicker to see through self-deception than the mind. We may ignore or deride the messages of the body, but its rebellion demands [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>“Ultimately the body will rebel. Even if it can be temporarily pacified with the help of drugs, cigarettes or medicine, it usually has the last word because it is quicker to see through self-deception than the mind. We may ignore or deride the messages of the body, but its rebellion demands to be heeded because its language is the authentic expression of our true selves and of the strength of our vitality.”</p></blockquote>
<p>This is a very powerful statement. Our true sense of self is rooted, not in ideas or thoughts, but in a “feeling of what happens” that is experienced at a bodily level.</p>
<p>Because this statement is so powerful, I also want to be careful to point out what it doesn’t mean. It doesn’t negate the value of ideas and rational thinking. This would be absurd. It’s just that, if we were to only pay attention to logical thinking, we’d be cutting ourselves off from a major portion of our resources. Our goal is to combine both.</p>
<p>This is the power of Focusing. We can take an issue that we are thinking about, a feeling or an emotion, a situation and sense inwardly all about how our body holds this too. We come into balance in the considering of all the data that is entering our field of awareness. If we just “think” and use logic then we become top-heavy. All of our energy stays in our head. If we just follow feelings we can become blown about by emotions which come and go, we can start to believe we are our feelings and we lose our stability. If we combine all 3 ways we are designed to process information we become stable. It is like the process of “triangulation”. The term triangulation originated in cartography where two or more reference points are used to locate an <em>exact</em> position.</p>
<p>Most of us spend so much time <em>thinking</em> about our problems and some of us spend time overwhelmed by the our <em>feelings</em> about our problems  that almost forget to be in touch with how our body is carrying the issue. Sometimes thinking and feeling don’t even connect to each other. have you ever been dissuaded from <em>feeling</em> a certain way through the power of logical arguments – or does that just leave you feeling unheard, invalidated or labelled as emotional.</p>
<p>The felt meaning your body carries enables you to listen to the story within that, at the same time, needs to be told and heard, by you. This is your <em><strong>own</strong></em> story. This is the key to Focusing and is what Gene Gendlin found was an important clue that unlocks the mystery of how change happens in people.</p>
<p>He discovered that:<span style="font-size: small;"> </span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Our bodies hold the key to transformation </strong></span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>when we can allow </strong></span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>the felt meaning to unfold </strong></span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>and tell its story.</strong></span></p>
<p>Emotions such as fear, anger, confusions are just the easily-recognised tip of how our bodies carry felt meaning. Your issue speaks like a story by moving forward in the changing body feeling of it.</p>
<p>Connecting with care and curiosity to our own story as it is known by our living body connects us to our own inner wisdom. We become both the author, the reader and the listener to our experience. And it is through the felt meaning held in our body that we are able to move beyond (yet still include) our minds (ego, will, pre-written story lines, and inner critics) and our emotions (moveable and reactive) to a more stable place within that can lead us to an undivided life of self-trust, self-respect and self-connection.</p>
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		<title>The Wisdom of the Body &amp; the Search for the Self</title>
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		<dc:creator>leona</dc:creator>
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<p>A great article from <a href="http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=content&amp;task=view&amp;id=1437">Shambhala Sun</a> &#8211; they are making older articles freely available (which they always have been) in their RSS feed. </p>
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<h5>From the impermanent to the heroic to the sacred—The Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche on how the view of body changes and evolves in the three vehicles of Buddhism.</h5>
<p>From the Buddhist perspective, our spiritual journey begins here—with this very body and mind. Who we are now consists of these two, body and mind, and who we might become will also be expressed through body and mind. Yet what is the true nature of these two?</p>
<p>Our present experience of life can be viewed as a long dream, arising from our lack of understanding about who we truly are and the actual nature of our world. What we usually refer to as a “dream” is only a short-term fantasy that we wake up from every morning. The real dream we are having is our “waking life,” a delusion that continues on and on. When we are in this dream and do not recognize that we are dreaming, then everything we see appears as solid and real, and we do not see any possibilities for transforming our painful experiences. However, when we recognize that we are dreaming, then everything becomes spacious, transparent and free, and all of our confusion and suffering can be easily transformed.</p>
<p>All the teachings of the Buddha are taught for the purpose of developing the penetrating knowledge that sees through this illusion and wakes us up. It is important to realize that these teachings do not constitute a religion in the conventional sense. Rather, they represent a genuine science of mind, a science of insight that uncovers the pure nature of the mind and world that we experience. They also portray a philosophy of life—an approach to life that deals with its meaning and helps us understand how we can overcome the suffering of the world.</p>
<p>When we say that Buddhism is a “science,” we are talking about going into the depths of our inner world using the methods of the path to explore the two basic states of confusion and wisdom. Our resulting understanding of mind brings us greater clarity about how to lead our lives effectively and meaningfully. The spiritual journey is nothing more and nothing less than his.</p>
<p>We may not accept the view that we are “dreaming.” However, most of us recognize a personal sense of self, a familiar face, so to speak, that looks out on the world and reacts habitually to each experience. This sense of self, of “I,” pervades each moment, each interaction, perpetuating itself infinitely. Yet how often or how closely do we look at it?</p>
<p>The two aspects of this self are always together: body is the ground for mind, the stabilizing element that brings mind to the present. The embodied mind can settle, be tamed and be trained, whereas mind without body can go anywhere in an instant. It is when we work with our mind that we overcome whatever we experience physically or mentally as negative or disturbing. So when we discover the actual nature of the body, we are on a genuine path to experiencing the pure nature of mind and its world.</p>
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<h4>The Body in the Three Yanas</h4>
<p>The Buddhist path is divided into three yanas, or vehicles, which represent levels or progressive stages of Buddhist teachings. The Hinayana focuses on individual liberation and the teachings of the Four Noble Truths and dependent origination. The Mahayana focuses on the teachings of emptiness, compassion and buddhanature, and introduces the ideal of the bodhisattva, who is dedicated to the liberation of all sentient beings. The Vajrayana (also called Tantrayana or Mantrayana) is known as the “diamond vehicle,” and also the “path of skillful means.” By taking the state of fruition as the path, this “rapid vehicle” can result in liberation in one lifetime.</p>
<p>Each of the yanas presents a specific view of the body and corresponding methods for investigating and discovering its essence.</p>
<p>The Hinayana view of body focuses on the relative existence of one’s own body as a product of karma and as an impure and impermanent collection of aggregates. The body is taken as an object of meditation to induce the state of renunciation and spur the renunciate to the full state of cessation.     </p>
<p>The Mahayana view of body, from the absolute point of view, focuses on the nonexistence of both the body itself and the mind that fixates on the body as a self. From the perspective of relative truth, the Mahayana views the body as inseparable appearance and emptiness. This illusion-like body becomes the basis for understanding the suffering of samsara more deeply and the ground for cultivating a genuine heart of love and compassion for all sentient beings. Moreover, the Mahayana meditation practices take not only one’s own body as an object of consideration, but also the bodies of all sentient beings.</p>
<p>The Vajrayana view of body is that the state of enlightenment is present within one’s physical form at this very moment. Body, speech and mind are regarded as sacred and are seen as the three kayas, or bodies, of buddha—primordially pure expressions of wisdom and compassion.     <br />By looking at the view of the body from the perspective of the three yanas, beginning with the Hinayana, we can see how, through the application of methods of investigation such as the practice of the four foundations of mindfulness and analytical meditation, we can expose this “self” further and further—the self that is pure fabrication, the no-self that is appearance-emptiness, and the state of primordial purity manifesting as the three buddha kayas.</p>
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<h4>The Four Foundations of Mindfulness</h4>
<p>The Four Foundations of Mindfulness are meditations that cultivate a correct knowledge of the natures of four specific objects: the body, feeling or sensation, the mind and phenomena. (Phenomena here refers to the six objects of our six sensory perceptions: forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touch and mental objects.) In this context, knowledge is primarily that which correctly recognizes relative truth, or the relative characteristics of these four things. However, on the basis of this, there is a gradual development of the higher knowledge that recognizes absolute truth. The Hinayana emphasizes these four mindfulness practices as meditations upon the nature of relative reality, while the Mahayana approach makes use of these practices as a way of realizing the absolute truth.</p>
<p>These four meditations work with the five collections of physical and mental components (known as the five skandhas, or aggregates) that comprise sentient beings: physical forms, sensations, perception, concept or mental formations, and consciousnesses. Among these five, the form skandha relates to the body and the next four are all related to mind. In short, we can say that there are two observed objects of self-clinging: body and mind.</p>
<p>Essentially, the practice of mindfulness consists of investigating these individual objects<br />
of meditation in order to discriminate between or distinguish the actual characteristics of the things themselves from the abstractions we create in dependence upon them. For example, the abstraction or concept of “my body” can be distinguished from the aggregate of body itself. The actual body is a physical thing composed of various elements, and it has nothing whatsoever to do with my name for it, my image of it, and so on.</p>
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<h4>The Hinayana Approach: Reversing Attachment to Self</h4>
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<p>From the Hinayana point of view, the body is the basis for the self-clinging that is said to be the cause of suffering. At the same time, the body is viewed as the main basis for the path that leads to the transcendence, or cessation, of suffering. Thus, the body is both a fundamental cause of suffering as well as that which suffers; in addition, it is a fundamental cause of liberation because it is that which engages in the path of transcendence.</p>
<p>In a basic way, the mindfulness of body relates to our fundamental sense of existence. Due to our samsaric tendencies, our existence is normally not very stable or grounded; it is very wild, like a mad elephant. For that reason, at the first stage of mindfulness practice, we work with the existence of form. In particular, we work with three different levels of form: the outer form of our physical existence, the inner form of our perceptions, and the innermost form, which is related to the Mahayana understanding of the selflessness of body.</p>
<p>We work with the outer form of our physical existence by bringing our complete attention to the physical body, which is the primary basis for our clinging. When we work with mindfulness of body, we work with the basic root of emotions, which is attachment. The method of practice is to feel the body within the state of calmness, or shamatha. We simply experience the skandha of form without adding anything to it—without adding any labels, judgments or thoughts, such as, “This is my body,” “This is a good body,” “This is a beautiful body,” “It is so healthy,” “It is so unhealthy,” and so forth. The instruction here is just to drop it all. At this point, we are simply being open. By bringing body into the present, we come into contact with what body actually is, rather than continuing to think about what it actually is.</p>
<p>What we are working toward is seeing the actual nature of the outer form of our body, without concern for speculations, such as, “Is the body mind or matter? Is the body a projection of mind or not?” At this level, we should forget about such philosophical or theoretical divisions. The Buddha teaches this basic approach in the sutras when he says such things as, “When you see, just see. When you smell, just smell. When you touch, just touch. When you feel, just feel.”</p>
<p>Once we are able to simply sit and be with our body, then it is possible for us to have a sense of the profound nature of our physical existence. That experience takes us to the inner state of physical existence, allowing us to see the true nature of our body, the reality of the relative existence of self. At this stage, we experience the impermanent nature of our body, which is the subtle experience of the mindfulness of body. It is said that as a result of this technique, we begin to feel our body in a way that is completely different from our ordinary experience. We actually begin to feel the empty nature of the body. The body naturally leads us to the experience of shunyata, or emptiness. Usually, we experience only the labels we impose on our body. When we look at ourselves in a mirror, we see nothing more than our conceptual mask. What is the problem with putting on this mask? We forget that we are wearing a mask and we scare ourselves. Practicing mindfulness of body is a way to experience the true self—the true body—without any barrier.</p>
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<h4>Reversing Attachment to Body</h4>
<p>In the Hinayana tradition, mindfulness of body is also practiced using the method known as the “meditation on ugliness,” or the “meditation on that which is repulsive.” The object of one’s meditation, in this case, includes both one’s own body and the bodies of others. Traditionally, one reflects on how our bodies are impure or unclean, to counteract the perception of our bodies as pure, and the five skandhas are viewed as “aggregates of filth.” This meditation engenders a sense of disgust toward the body and strengthens our sense of renunciation, of wishing to be free of samsara.     <br />This attitude of revulsion is generated in stages by means of the “ten perceptions of the body.” The first of these is the perception of the body as mortal, the recognition that death could occur at any time. The next meditation works with the perception of the body as being ugly or gross by reflecting on all of the unpleasant things that are inside our body, such as blood, lymph, phlegm and other foul and revolting things. The remaining eight perceptions are based on considering what happens to a body after death.</p>
<p>Although we are very attached to our bodies right now, if we think about these a great deal, then our perception of our bodies will change. Essentially, we are attempting to divest ourselves of whatever it is that we are fixating on as “I” or as a self through contemplating the dissolution of the body, until finally we realize that there is no basis in the body for the concept “I.” This meditation should only be done under the guidance of a qualified Buddhist teacher.</p>
<p>Contemplating impermanence is another method for reversing our attachment to the body and inspiring us to take advantage of the precious opportunity of this life that allows us to cut attachment. When we reflect on death and impermanence, we reflect on the certainty of death as well as the uncertainty of the moment of death. We also contemplate the kinds of experiences we will have at the time of death, and what will truly help us through them. We consider what we are leaving behind—our physical body, our family and friends, all our possessions and power, and even our teachers.</p>
<p>When we reflect in this way, we see that this reality is not frozen—it is flowing like a river. Every moment is new, fresh and profoundly awakening. We can take full advantage of this moment or let it slip from our hands, just as each moment in the past has slipped away. That is seeing impermanence: seeing the transitory nature of our lives and the fragile nature of our existence.</p>
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